![]() ![]() Every initiation is met with an eager response. Imagine that you and your husband live in sexual utopia: You always want to have sex at exactly the same time, and in the same way your husband wants it. Man and Woman were different before the Fall If you are doubtful about that statement, give me a chance to prove it. In fact, it is through differences that the deepest unity can be achieved. Now I see that sexual differences between a husband and wife can be a spectacular form of blessing. I am getting glimpses of his grand design-even in the middle of the frustrations differences can sometimes cause. Over the years, God has been teaching me the beauty of differences. I know I'm not alone-I've talked with many women who also argue with their spouses about how often to have sex, whether or not to try new things, when to have sex, and how quickly to get to the "main event." It seemed like a cruel joke, or a gift we were staring at but couldn't seem to open. Sexual intimacy created more conflict in our marriage than unity, and more pain than pleasure. The differences between me and my husband, particularly in the bedroom, were driving us both crazy. ![]() Have you ever wondered why God made you and your husband so different? For many years, I thought that might be my first question to God when I got to heaven. ![]()
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